Great advice, from a groom’s perspective:

Chapter 1: You are overwhelming us with details.

“The best thing you can do is tell your fiance that he's about to throw one of the the biggest parties of his life (I don't know how much your man partied in college). While it's more upscale than his "red cup" parties he threw in the past, you want your wedding to be fun and memorable. He'll help you with that!

For now, let's skip details like colors, centerpieces, and what flowers to use. Let's start with things we're really interested in: musical entertainment, food & alcohol, and the photographer.

Let him give his advice on whether to hire a DJ or a band.”

Chapter 2: Compromise.

From The Temple of Groom, by Dave, a wedding blogger and groom who loved planning his wedding.